LIVING LIFE & LOVING IT!

I am now happily 64, survivor of much, and finally in love! --yes, the love I was looking for all my life. is finally mine.

I was married for forty years to an infertile man I met when I was a teenager after being raped by a deacon in my mother's church, and becoming

pregnant from that rape when I was 15, having an abortion as I did not want to be a teenager with a baby.  And I waited and I waited, and finally after my divorce, a man I had known for many years approached and I had the  best experience possible to have from physical closeness.  And I love this man with all my heart.  Love is worth waiting for indeed.

Me and my Thing in Chicago on a bridege

I also had a son, now 26 years old, thanks to the generosity of a sperm donor  in Cambridge , Massachusetts.  As my ex-spouse was infertile and also mean.  My son has a verified genius level IQ and is a member of Mensa, the High IQ society ; in fact,, he became a member when he was four years old.

The best o f life is just no happening when I am nearly a senior citizen, age 64, and survivor of the rupture of a cranial aneurysm  that I like to  think of as the blossoming of a stunning pink flower in my head, a rupture that had to happen in order for me and my Thing to get together. Although we were already friends, he waited until after I was divorced to approach me differently, and I love him just for that, but so much more than that.    Our first date was a Dream Date in Chicago, and this is what I wore on the flight (based on soemthign my exspoude said. 

my "Dream Baby" dress. what my Thing calls me

The dress I wore on my last date  in Chicago with him.  We ate at Vermillion Indian Latin Cuisine. in facet my very first Kiss with this man in the back seat of a taxi, was so exceptional, so throughly  transforming, it was as if I had never been kissed before in my life, so I had to write my Dream Date weekend, a book called,"New Kiss Horizon"

Can my Thing ever kiss!

How I looked recently, a multiracial woman who has never added into my hair.  who has never  used a relaxer or extensions.  I haven't had to, thank you.  And please be thankful  for whatever you've got.  fo! s long as you are alive there is a chance! 

How I looked recently . this year.

 Life is good indeed! No matter your age.  Just make it  a good life, and believe!